Life is a cycle of change, and nothing—neither luck nor health—is permanent. I've witnessed this truth firsthand, especially after I stepped away from the manifestation techniques and the idle chatter on forums that once preoccupied me. Since then, I’ve noticed a stagnation in my career, wealth, and luck. Recently I made a significant career shift, leaving behind a high-paying consulting role. Why? I’m not entirely sure but something in me felt compelled to move forward. Perhaps a little too ambitiously as I began envisioning myself in a director-level position at a multinational corporation. Looking back now, it feels surreal.
At the time, I had two offers on the table: a lucrative consulting job in Singapore or a management role in Malaysia with a 50% pay cut. The decision might seem obvious to most, but I chose the latter. This decision raised many eyebrows in my family, who had come to depend on my financial support. The exchange rate alone (2.3 myr to 1 sgd) would have made the choice even more puzzling from an outside perspective.
But something changed during that period of my life. I gained true friends—comrades who stood by me through thick and thin. I dropped the ego that had previously driven me and realized that teamwork is far more valuable than individual achievement. I used to think too highly of myself, operating solo because I saw others as burdens rather than allies. It took time but I eventually recognized that this mindset was flawed.
Having lived a materialistic life filled with respect and status, I now appreciate the choices I made back then. A moment that sticks with me occurred some time ago when I visited the Ministry of Manpower (MOM) to inquire about applying for a PEP pass. The staff, at first glance, gave me a skeptical look as if to say, Are you sure you qualify? They proceeded to outline the requirements, stating that an Employment Pass holder must earn a fixed monthly salary of at least $12,000. With a quiet sense of pride, I showed them my payslip. Immediately, their attitude shifted. Not only did I meet the criteria, I surpassed it without question.
Those glamorous days of consulting and high salaries, however, are now behind me. Today, I’m in a completely different field, facing new challenges that are more aligned with who I am becoming as I age. It’s time to slow down, shift my focus toward family, and embrace a more balanced life. While I might not be as wealthy as I once was, I find myself much happier and more content with what I have.
In this journey of spreading love and peace, I’ve unintentionally become a counselor to many people. Nothing brings me greater satisfaction than hearing, "Thanks for your advice." It fuels my desire to help others even more. I now believe that love is the most powerful force in the world. Love has the potential to heal, transform, and create miracles. It’s a force that has guided me through my own ups and downs, and one that I will continue to carry forward.
Life, after all, is not a straight line but a rollercoaster of experiences. And through it all, I’ve learned that while nothing is eternal, love—when shared—can leave a lasting legacy.
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